Create & Join Events
Host your own events or join ones nearby. From casual hangouts and men's social groups to bate sessions — meet your M8s in person.
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B8Mates: The Social App for Men to Connect with Like-Minded Men Near YouWelcome to B8Mates
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The social app for men to connect, join Tribes, create events, and build meaningful friendships — because men deserve more than just hookups.
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Join as an alpha user and help us build the community. Start a Tribe, create events, make M8s and Close M8s — a social experience built for real connection, not just hookups.
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Everything You Need to Connect
Men can feel isolated — B8Mates gives you the tools to change that. Find bate mates, build genuine friendships, join Tribes around shared interests, and connect with like-minded men near you. More than hookups — real connections.
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Alex, 28
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Jordan, 32
0.5 km
Sam, 25
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Chris, 30
1.2 km
M8s & Close M8s
Build your network with M8s for genuine male friendships, and keep your inner circle tight with Close M8s — your bate mates, JO buddies, and closest friends.
Tribes
Create or join Tribes built around shared interests — gaming, fitness, bating, or anything else. Post updates, plan Tribe-only events, and find your people.
Zero Ads, Ever
Unlike Grindr and other apps, you won't be flooded with ads. Just pure social experience — the way it should be.
Location-Based Discovery
Find bators, JO buddies, or just gay friends near you with precise location features and distance filters. Discreet and anonymous.
Private Messaging
Chat securely with end-to-end encryption. Share photos and messages that stay between you.
Privacy & Discretion
Stay discreet and anonymous. Control who sees your profile, go DL-friendly, and connect only on your terms.
Designed for Your Privacy
B8Mates puts you in control. Stay discreet, go anonymous, or show your profile — connect with bate mates, find real male friendships, or just hang with your M8s.
Discover bators, friends & men nearby with location features
Private and public photo albums
Encrypted real-time chat
Discreet mode and anonymous browsing
For friendships, hookups & everything in between