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B8Mates started as exactly what the name says: a place for men to find bate mates. It has grown into a full social app, but bating is still at its heart — from the Discover grid and bate events to Tribes built around edging, gooning and group sessions, and the Nut Streak tracker that keeps score between mates.
What bators get on B8Mates
- A Discover grid of men nearby, with distance, availability and host/travel shown
- Tribes for edging, gooning, group bating and other scenes
- Bate events with interest registration, host approval and private group chats
- Nut Streak tracker with streaks, goals and leaderboards
- Encrypted chat, private albums and discreet mode
- No ads and a friendship-first culture
A community, not just a list of profiles
On most apps, bators are a minority hiding in plain sight. On B8Mates they are the community. Profiles show whether a man is into solo, mutual or group sessions, whether he hosts, and what else he is into. Tribes gather men around specific scenes — edging, gooning, verbal, gear, or simply mates who like to bate together — with their own feeds and Tribe-only events.
The result is that you are not explaining yourself to anyone. Everyone knows why they are here.
Bate events and group sessions
Any premium member can create an event: pick a date and time, choose a venue or a general area, set the visibility (everyone, M8s, Close M8s, or a Tribe) and let men register their interest. Hosts approve attendees, the app opens a private group chat for the people going, and the exact location can be shared only after acceptance.
It is the easiest way to organise a regular bate session with mates — or to find one near you this weekend.
Nut Streak: friendly competition with a health angle
Research from a long-running Harvard study linked ejaculating 21 or more times a month with roughly a 20% lower risk of prostate cancer. Nut Streak turns that into a habit tracker: log each session with one tap, watch your weekly and monthly streaks, and compare with your M8s on a private leaderboard — or anonymously with the men in your suburb, city or country.
Nut Streak is available when adult content is enabled in your profile and is general wellness information, not medical advice.
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Frequently asked questions
What is a bate mate?+
A bate mate (or bate buddy) is a man you bate with — in person, on camera, or simply as part of a group that shares the interest. On B8Mates the term covers everything from a regular one-to-one mate to the men in your Tribe.
Do I have to show my face?+
No. You can hide your face photo, keep private albums for men you choose, and show only approximate distance. Many bators on B8Mates stay anonymous until they trust someone.
How do bate events work?+
Premium members create an event with a date, time, location and audience. Nearby men register interest, the host accepts who he wants, and the app opens a group chat for attendees. Exact locations can be kept hidden until acceptance.
Is B8Mates for gay men only?+
No. B8Mates welcomes gay, bisexual, bicurious and straight-identifying men who bate with other men. Your orientation is yours to share or not.