For solo and shared sessions
The Wank Buddy App Built for Men Who Want More Than a Hookup Grid
Looking for a wank buddy or JO buddy nearby who is on the same page as you? B8Mates is a social app for men where sharing a session is a normal part of mateship — not something buried behind a hookup profile. Browse men near you, see who is available now, and chat privately before you meet.
Why men choose B8Mates as their wank buddy app
- See who is available now, today or this week — no more dead conversations
- Host or travel preferences and distance shown on every profile
- End-to-end encrypted chat with photos, voice memos and location sharing
- Private albums, hidden face photos and discreet mode
- Group chats, events and Tribes for meeting more than one mate at a time
- No ads, ever — and premium is free for alpha users
What a wank buddy app should actually do
Most apps make you reverse-engineer what someone is into from a one-line bio. On B8Mates it is upfront: profiles show what a man is looking for, whether he hosts or travels, and whether he is available now, today or this week. You spend less time guessing and more time connecting with JO buddies who want the same thing.
Because B8Mates is friendship-first, the men you meet as wank buddies often become regular mates — people you message, invite to events, and add to your M8s or Close M8s list. Casual stays casual if you want it to, but it does not have to end there.
Discreet by design
Discretion matters for a lot of men, especially if you are bi, curious, married or simply private. B8Mates lets you choose exactly how visible you are: show your approximate distance instead of your location, hide your face photo until you decide to share it, keep private photo albums for selected mates, and switch on discreet mode to go invisible in the grid while still chatting.
Every message is end-to-end encrypted, photos shared in chat can be revoked, and there are no ads tracking what you do in the app.
Solo, in pairs or in a group
B8Mates is built for how bators actually meet. Message a single JO buddy, start a group chat with a few regulars, or create an event and let nearby men register their interest. Tribes let you join communities around specific interests, and the Nut Streak tracker turns the whole thing into a friendly competition between you and your mates.
Find a wank buddy near you
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Frequently asked questions
Is B8Mates only for finding wank buddies?+
No. B8Mates is a social app for men. Many members use it to find JO buddies and bate mates, but just as many use it for male friendship, events and Tribes. Your profile tells others what you are looking for, so you only match with men who want the same.
How do I find a wank buddy near me?+
Download B8Mates, set your location and preferences, and the Discover grid shows men nearby sorted by distance. Filter by “available now”, M8s, new members or online status, then message anyone who looks like a good fit.
Can I stay anonymous?+
Yes. You can hide your face photo, show only approximate distance, keep albums private and use discreet mode. You decide when — or if — you reveal more.
Is the app free?+
B8Mates is free to download and use. Premium features such as starting new conversations and creating events are included free for three months for alpha users.